I have really enjoyed this forum the past seven months. Yesterday, one of the members on here accused me of sponging off my husband because I don't work, and it made me feel kind of sad.
How can we judge and say unkind things to people that we don't even know?
Did he read that I started work at age 12 and worked for over 40 years since then. Did he know that my last full time job was working 7 nights a week? Did he know that my husband asked me to quit so that I could stay home with him at night?
A big thank you to all of the really nice people on this forum that have made me feel happy to be here!!!!!!!
Kind of sad
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No one doubts that you are an equal contributor in your personal affairs, just as you are a valued participant on this forum. Your good sense and good example are an inspiration to us all, and we are the richer because you share here.
Incidentally, in East Tenn. we have a saying, "You don't kick a dog because it barks." It's the nature of a dog to bark, but we don't dignify its yapping by paying it attention.
Regards
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Really, Julie, pay no attention to that person, obviously, he doesn't know what he's talking about...I hope you won't let someone like that dampen your joy at participating on the forums or the journals
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If anything youve made $10,000 tax free this year. Isnt it $10,060?
Sorry the misinformed got you miffed
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I get rude comments all the time about not working FT I could give you alot of thoughts on those people but I will make it short please stay we all need you here!!!
August 10th, 2006 at 03:19 am 1155179972
Julie, I haven't been around very long, but already I can see that you are very much the level-headed one of the group! You are the kind-hearted, sweet one who enjoys keeping the peace. We need your kind around!
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All he has done is reveal the extent of his ignorance by taking a small set of text on an internet forum clearly out of context, and jumped to his own conclusions; conclusions which I might add couldn't be farther away from the truth if he had tried.
As the saying does, there's always a bad apple in every bushel, and the same is true for internet forums as well. It's happens, and I would take comfort knowing that it's him, not you.
August 14th, 2006 at 03:02 am 1155524540
Needless to say, the comment is total bull! No one gets to pass judgment on a marriage or how a couple manages money.
No one who knew you for 5 minutes would ever accuse you of sponging off of anyone!
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August 17th, 2006 at 02:13 am 1155780805
I second the others (I guess now I "26" the others) when I tell you that I read your blog every day and think what you do is great. I'm with those who believe marriage is a PARTNERSHIP and that each one does what they need to to make it work. Obviously, after 30 years, you and your hubby seem to have it down pat. So ignore frugal bachelor and listen to the rest of us...
August 18th, 2006 at 02:42 am 1155868929
Be blessed and keep your chin up dear. Again...I enjoy your blog...keep inspiring us all.
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Sweetie.. you've made your own money... God has blessed you! Its not us who make money but God who gives it or takes it away. So I don't think it matters whether you work at a "real" job or not.. Its harder to stay at home anyway.. and God knows that.. Hopefully he'll give you more dividends as a bonus.
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